What should I do if I really want a divorce? ——Hot topics and structured suggestions in the past 10 days
Recently, hot topics about marriage and emotions have continued to spark discussions, especially the search volume for "divorce"-related content has increased significantly. The following are the hot topics and structured data discussed on the Internet in the past 10 days to provide reference for people facing marital difficulties.
1. Statistics of hot search topics related to divorce in the past 10 days

| Ranking | Hot search keywords | Search volume (10,000) | Main discussion platform |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | A Practical Guide to the Cooling-Off Period in Divorce | 48.5 | Weibo, Zhihu |
| 2 | Single mother’s entrepreneurial story | 32.1 | Douyin, Xiaohongshu |
| 3 | Is marriage counseling useful? | 28.7 | Baidu, Bilibili |
| 4 | New Cases on Divorce Property Division | 25.3 | Toutiao, Kuaishou |
2. Key steps before divorce decision-making
Based on expert advice and legal knowledge in hot search topics, the following structured process has been sorted out:
| stage | specific actions | time required | Proportion of successful cases |
|---|---|---|---|
| emotional assessment | Record daily conflict frequency | 7-15 days | 62% |
| Professional consultation | Marriage counselor + lawyer | 1-3 times | 78% |
| financial audit | common property list | 3-7 days | 91% |
| Children's plan | custody simulation program | 5-10 days | 85% |
3. Practical suggestions from hot searches
1.Emotional management:Douyin’s hot list shows that under the topic #EPEFOREDIvorceEmotionalSelf-Help, mindfulness meditation and practice videos have been played more than 8 million times.
2.Legal knowledge:Zhihu Gaozan answered that the newly revised "Women's Rights and Interests Protection Law" in 2023 clearly stipulates compensation for housework, and the amount of compensation in the cases involved has increased by 37%.
3.Financial independence:Xiaohongshu data shows that among women who started side businesses after divorce, handicrafts, self-media, and community group buying have become the three most popular areas, with average monthly income increasing by 3,200 yuan.
4. Comparison of typical decision-making models
| Decision type | average decision cycle | remarriage rate | Satisfaction (after 1 year) |
|---|---|---|---|
| impulsive divorce | Within 3 days | 43% | 2.8/10 |
| Counseling Divorce | 3-6 months | 12% | 7.5/10 |
| Separation transitional type | 6-12 months | 8% | 8.2/10 |
5. Action Guide
1.Emergency:If domestic violence is involved, immediately preserve the evidence and call the police. Hot searches show that the average response time of the All-China Women’s Federation’s assistance hotline 12338 has been shortened to 2 hours after receiving calls.
2.General process:It is recommended to follow the four steps of "Emotional Diary→Professional Assessment→Financial Planning→Communication with Children". Detailed templates can be downloaded in Weibo Chaohua#rationaldivorce.
3.Resource acquisition:Search "divorce service package" on WeChat to get the latest service guides from local civil affairs bureaus, including online appointment channels for 21 provinces and cities.
The choice of marriage relationship needs to be carefully considered. Combining hot search trends and professional data, adopting a structured approach can effectively reduce decision-making risks. No matter what the final choice is, the reconstruction of self-worth is an eternal proposition.
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